I CANT KNOW WHETHER YOU ARE IN-LOVE OR NOT, SO DONT ASK ME AGAIN!

What is Love? This is a question a friend asked me sometime ago because he believes i host a relationship program on Radio hence i should know all about Love.

But the truth is, i sometimes get confuse about what really Love is. As a christian, i know God loves in a perfect way and that is why Jesus came to die for my sins. That Love is called Agape love. I don't want to go into what is agape and what is not Agape. Because i still find it difficult to understand the Love of God.

The Love is so strong that it makes me feel secured when i pray to him. I know he will always be there for me and protect me. That is my belief and i will hold unto that.

But i really get confuse when i am asked when do you know that you are "in love and out of love". I am blogging on this because my friends are getting entangled in a web that makes them lack the chance to enjoy themselves and the "Love fever".

They think Love is a concrete thing that must be given to you as a parcel. No! that is not Love. In fact Love is a passion which every one should know by now. It comes and goes and it has seasons and if you treat it well it will surround you for sometime and re-ignite again.

I think those of my friends who are asking this question do not understand this characteristic of Love.

Love is developed and comes after developing likeness for someone. If you really want to know if you are in-love, get to like someone and spend time with the person and if the person does same and develops such feelings and expresses such gestures towards you then you may be falling in love.

Don't ask me again if you are really in love because i dont know and although relationship experts would give you gestures that suggest that, they dont feel what you feel.

When you fall in love, it is only you who knows that you are in love.
I think i have to start writing about Love and share some of the issues with you all in some weeks to come.